private gamemodes with only friends

I love this game cause i love dinos but im very Passive when i play, i dont attack other players nor do i enjoy it . i go and find the corpses around the area im in if i need food it would be nice to just play in a server with only your friends so us passive players can enjoy the game . of course making trophies in private mode should be disabled cause that would be unfair to get them in a private game mode

and making a community server would be a nice alternative but as a console player you cant make them so thats out of the question for me